Ego-Control

Introduction

Here are a number of statements that may or may not apply to you. For each statement, select the response that best applies to you. Do not spend too long deliberating about your responses: if in doubt, choose the option that immediately seems most appropriate.

Disagree Strongly Disagree Moderately Disagree a Little Agree a Little Agree Moderately Agree Strongly
1 2 3 4 5 6
1 - Disagree Strongly
2 - Disagree Moderatley
3 - Disagree a Little
4 - Agree a Little
5 - Agree Moderately
6 - Agree Strongly
Statement 1 2 3 4 5 6
I find it hard to make small talk when I meet new people.
At times I have very much wanted to leave home.
Sometimes I rather enjoy going against the rules and doing things I am not supposed to.
I have sometimes stayed away from another person because I thought I might do or say something that I might regret afterwards.
I have often had to take orders from someone who did not know as much as I did.
My way of doing things can be misunderstood or bother others.
I would like to wear expensive clothes.
I like to stop and think things over before I do them.
People consider me a spontaneous, devil-may-care person.
I tend to buy things on impulse.
I often get involved in things I later wish I could get out of.
At times I have worn myself out by undertaking too much.
I can remember ‘‘playing sick’’ to get out of something.
I have been known to do unusual things on a dare.
I am steady and planful rather than unpredictable and impulsive.
I am easily downed in an argument.
When I get bored, I like to stir up some excitement.
I like to flirt.
In a group of people I would not be embarrassed to be called on to start a discussion or give an opinion about something I know
I do not let too many things get in the way of my work.
I would like to be a journalist.
On the whole, I am a cautious person.
Some of my family have habits that bother and annoy me very much.
I don’t like to start a project until I know exactly how to proceed.
I often say and do things on the spur of the moment, without stopping to think.
I finish one activity or project before starting another.
I keep out of trouble at all costs.
I consider a matter from every viewpoint before I make a decision.
My conduct is largely controlled by the customs of those about me.
At times, I am tempted to do or say something that others would think inappropriate.
It is unusual for me to express strong approval or disapproval of the actions of others.
I do not always tell the truth.
I become impatient when I have to wait for something.
It makes me uncomfortable to put on a stunt at a party even when others are doing the same sort of thing.
I am against giving money to beggars.
I have never done anything dangerous for the fun of it.
Some of my family have quick tempers.