Parental Specialist

Introduction

Here are a number of statements that may or may not apply to you. For each statement, select the response that best applies to you. Do not spend too long deliberating about your responses: if in doubt, choose the option that immediately seems most appropriate.

Disagree Strongly Disagree Moderately Disagree a Little Agree a Little Agree Moderately Agree Strongly
1 2 3 4 5 6
1 - Disagree Strongly
2 - Disagree Moderatley
3 - Disagree a Little
4 - Agree a Little
5 - Agree Moderately
6 - Agree Strongly
Statement 1 2 3 4 5 6
I'm not that good at keeping in touch with grandparents, cousins, aunts and uncles.
I keep in good touch with family (close and distant relatives).
I see my parents quite a lot.
I see myself as conventional, uncreative.
I don't see the point in saving money for the future: I'd rather spend it now and enjoy it now.
I prefer to save my money for the future than spend it now.
I'm keen not to talk too much during conversations.
I have quite a large number of friends.
I've always looked forward to having children.
When I was growing up, I didn't think about having children very often.
I'm not sure that I'll cope with parenting very well.
I keep in contact with a lot of people.
I spent a lot of my early life imagining having a family and children.
I spend quite a lot of time with the family I grew up with.
I don't see my parents all that often.
I see myself as calm, emotionally stable.
I've always been a bit daunted by the prospect of having children one day.
I don’t talk to the family I grew up with that often.
I see myself as reserved, quiet.
I find social awkwardness excruciating.
I'm very close to my friends; I tend not to bother with loose acquaintances.
I'm very (emotionally) close to the family I grew up with.
I have plenty of friends whom I see for fun - but whose friendship is not that ‘deep’.
Sometimes I end up dominating the conversation.
I see myself as anxious, easily upset.
I don't keep in contact with that many people.
I find children a bit annoying.
I love children.
I can't be bothered having friends just to have fun with; a true friend should be there in your hour of need.
I think I'll be a good parent.
I see myself as disorganised, careless.
I would say that my political leanings are quite left wing
I try hard to make sure that everyone feels comfortable during conversations.
I talk to the family I grew up with quite a lot.
I try to be very polite during conversation.
I live quite close to my parents.
I probably interrupt people more than I should.
Making my house homely is not one of my highest priorities.
I see myself as dependable, self-disciplined.
I see myself as sympathetic, warm.
I don’t spend that much time with the family I grew up with.
I invest a lot of time into making my home look nice.
If I want to say something but feel it might embarrass someone I tend to keep quiet.
I see myself as critical, quarrelsome.
I only have a small number of close friends.
I've always been really excited about the prospect of having children.
I am willing to break social taboos during conversation.
When I was growing up I didn't think about having a family and children all that much.
I see myself as open to new experiences, complex.
I don't particularly gravitate towards left wing political ideals.
I'm not that close to the family I grew up with.
I see myself as extraverted, enthusiastic.
I live quite far away from my parents.